Every time I hear this comment, I look at the person's boot rate, and it's super high. What's really going on is people figured out how to avoid people who always get booted using prereqs and such. Get your boot rate down and you'll find a totally different experience.
Again, you really should address just how paradoxical that is. To lower your boot rate, you need to play games, but to play games, you need to lower your boot rate.
At the end of the day, it encourages spammy games or creating new accounts if you have a past of favoring longer games (FFAs, big team scenarios, dip, etc).