ok, so why are you posting this? You created the atmosphere by calling him a faggot, unprovoked too. It should be him blacklisting you as i am doing now. If you're going to play social games, try and learn to be social and geez, don't post threads showing the world how you start fights
Oh lord this is just bad on so many levels, although I did like the "you're .5% more of a douche, overall, across all games played." line. He was out of line for being so angry you went over time once, especially considering his boot time is higher than yours, however you retaliated extremely aggressively and were certainly out of line yourself. It's just all wrong.
A phobia is an anxiety disorder rooted to a persistent, irrational fear, often with physical manifestations. Despite what you may have been trained to believe, use of a word does not qualify one as a "homophobe."
Words have definitions, not just their base words. The definition of phobia does directly relate to that of homophobia.
Definition of homophobia : irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals
Discriminating against homosexuals indeed does make one a homophobe. Arguing it doesn't makes one a pedantic idiot. Being a poor player also makes one likely to be an idiot. I'm afraid you're fucked on both bases.