I've recently had a rather horrible time of romance. I wanted to see if anyone had any stories or advice concerning falling it love, loving a person, heartbreak, etc. I do NOT want stories of excessive drama/sexual content.
I'll leave one statement here to start: Love, real love, is wanting the other person to be happy, no matter what the cost to yourself.
We've all been there brother. It sucks but it gets easier.
But yeah, you gotta make sure you're happy before you can try to make the other person happy. If you spend all your time neglecting your own happiness trying to please them you'll just end up miserable and likely resenting them.
I think you've misunderstood my quote. It's only useful if it goes both ways. I'm not saying you should let people do whatever, I'm saying you have to be there for the other person. You have to ensure their happiness, and they you.
This isn't all about me. Yes, i've had a rough time, but I wanted to see what other people thought too. I've got my own people to talk to about what happened to me, I just needed an intro line for this subject.
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