Yeah join good multi day diplos.
I host some myselfhttps://www.warzone.com/Forum/368195-virtual-warfare-games-discussion-point
PM me if you want invite to the next one. Currently the Game of Thrones template fills up the quickest.
In my settings, you get turned into an ai instead of abandoned land when your booted and the ai takes turns for you. You have the choice to come back twice from the AI and rejoin the game, but thats entirely upto you because if youve missed out on RPing you'd probably be left out.
Feel free to use my templates (link in that forum post) and post your game link in that forum post cause it'd likely fill up quickly that way. Happy gaming ;)