I dont want to use the Warlord distribution or any other, because i don't want people to start directly beside each other
First off, the whole idea of warlords distribution is to distribute the territories so that people don't start next to each other. Open up the Earth map and click "View" next to Warlords and you'll see what I mean: https://www.warlight.net/SinglePlayer?PreviewMap=12
Of course, some map makers don't honor this or don't even create a Warlords distribution. But that was the idea.
You may be thinking of random warlords
which is random, and therefore could have adjacent starts.
How do i set it up, that i select 13 terr in the map and then the 13 people should get one of those selected terr randomly.
This is something that only the map maker can do. They have to define it as a distribution.
There are a few things you can do to:
1. Look at the distributions defined in the map and see if any come close to the spots you want players to start with.
2. Contact the map creator and ask them to add a distribution for the territories you want.
3. Use a custom scenario + manual distribution. If you set it to manual distribution, then you can simply set them all to Slot A and players will get those territories to pick from.
Edited 11/28/2016 16:38:10