So Piggy, the use of the word "bossy" is sometimes applicable. I agree. As you put it, there is no actual issue involving assertive girls being unfairly demeaned by the insult "bossy". This isn't unreasonable, maybe they have misidentified this problem.
But as I already fucking told you, I'm fairly certain the Girl Guides know more about child development than you do, that pretty much being their entire purpose. So maybe you could stand to be a little less assertive, hmm?
She wasn't bossy since that word is not allowed,
If a middle-aged, ugly woman forces herself on top of an underaged boy
And you would describe this as "bossy"? I'm not sure what this has to do with the topic which is to do with encouraging children to become leaders.
Also, not sure what looks have to do with rape ... unless you're implying that rape isn't so bad if an attractive person is doing it ... which would be very insulting to male rape victims as well as the less important kind.