This guy seems to be losing a game where everyone surrendered. He won't move and the game is still in my game list.
The link is here: http://warlight.net/MultiPlayer.aspx?GameID=1690824

What do I do? Thanks

he is inactive for 56 hours.. if he remains inactive for 90 days he will be auto-booted from all current games.. and since this is the only game he is currently in, it is possible he left the site.

It looks like you join the ranks of stalled games.
The other camp counselors won't tell you this, but I heard that they used to take all the players from stalled games and lock them in a room below the mess hall. But then they lost the key and so they just left them down there.
And they say that sometimes when you play warlight on a moonless night you can hear their faint cries of *....boooot.......booooot....*


Sadly the only cure is time.

and making sure not to feed them... /nods