I hope that helps. After he attacked me without warning, he then waited the next turn because he said he would pull out. Then he did NOT pull out the next turn. Then I was nice again and explained diplomacy to him. Then he announced war against me and again did NOT give me warning. He announced it the same play he attacked me. I was being super-nice to him but he just doesn't get it. Please look at the public chat and watch history. He claims that he pulled out but I attacked too soon. That is NOT the case. I waited until my last turn. I am the highest troop earner in that game so I waited until my last move which was well past his last move, and he did not move so I lost troops and did not win the island back (st paul / st peter archipelago). He said he pulled out but he did not. If he pulled out then there would be 1 troop even if I attacked before his withdrawal but in fact there were 72 left because he had added troops there equalling I believe 118.